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Dude you spend an inordinate amount of time and energy speculating and obsessing about my life in particular and women in their 30s and 40s in general. Why do you even care? You are obviously someone who's been routinely rejected by women on these dating sites (I wonder why?) and you're lashing out. And I'm not the one who comes across as angry and hysterical, look at your original reply to me. Plenty of women find their soul mates and spouses in their 30s and even 40s, and sometimes even later. Did it occur to you that a woman is single in her thirties not by choice or because of "pickiness" in her 20s, but because she didn't have the opportunity to marry for whatever reason, or was in a long-term relationship with someone who was not ready to get married? Then there are financial reasons why people, men and women, don't or can't marry (student loans etc.). There are people who are content being single and have fulfilling lives and don't want to ever marry. Frankly, it's none of your business either way.

You come out with some seriously weird shit. I don't know how to "compliment" a man's life??? The kind of woman a man wants and "deserves"??? The term "throwback" doesn't even begin to describe you.

But since you engage in wild, uninformed speculation about my past (really you have this unnaturally weird obsession with me, Stephen), let me engage in some speculation about you. I notice that you never confirm one way or the other whether you're married with a family. (I also never told you that I wasn't currently married or in a LT relationship; you are totally extrapolating that.) I strongly suspect that you are one of those single 40- or 50-year-old guys who plays fantasy football and video games. You're likely obsessed with either Lord of the Rings, Star Trek, or Star Wars, or all three. Maybe you still live with Mom? You're an incel. You get rejected on dating apps so now you have a deeply ingrained misogyny and lash out at women you don't know online. You sound like a real catch.

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