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I don't know what bystanders could have done to actively intervene; I get that. I have been within a few feet of a beating inflicted in public by strong young males on several occasions. It's breathtaking how severe of a damage can be inflicted by a young male human in just seconds, and although I wanted to help, there was nothing I could do physically. To physically step in between the perp and the victim looked to me akin to stepping into a tornado. Made of whirling bricks.

But what I do see in the all-too-common videos of violence that have been captured and posted in this modern cellphone age is a distinct change in the ATTITUDE of the bystanders. The default behavior seems to be apathy, disengagement, or even glee. If I were near this assault I would have at least been screaming, calling 911, looking actively for police etc. What I saw from the bystanders instead was a lot of "Huh. Would you look at that?"

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The victim's daughter has publicly thanked an anonymous bystander for yelling at the attacker to distract him during the attack. If the victim's daughter can thank this person, I think it's worth mentioning that it happened so wanted to share.

https://www.foxnews.com/us/nyc-asian-assault-victim-good-samaritan-diverted-attackers-attention

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NYPD said that NO ONE EVEN CALLED 911 during or after this assault. Cops saw the victim laying on the sidewalk as they were driving by after the attack. I understand being afraid to physically intervene, but as you mentioned, someone could have at least called the police. I don't know about the liability of the security officers, but I couldn't imagine any liability related to calling the police or checking on the victim to see if she were even alive. I couldn't imagine laying on the sidewalk, experiencing immense pain, and being disoriented after a violent attack...everyone just keeps on walking... It's disgusting and so sad.

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"To physically step in between the perp and the victim looked to me akin to stepping into a tornado. Made of whirling bricks." Yeah. Unfortunately, "stepping in" in situations like this is like jumping in front of a train to save someone who's tied to the tracks. It creates two corpses instead of one. Like you, what bothers me is that no one tried to do ANYTHING. :-(

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