Okay I got to the boy mom part. I did hear correctly your having a boy. I think teaching a boy to be a man starts day 1. Sometimes I think I get looks when i’m telling my 3 and a half year old son to quit crying and be a man. But I still kiss his scrape and make it better.
I stand by my earlier comment how to stop a tantrum …
Okay I got to the boy mom part. I did hear correctly your having a boy. I think teaching a boy to be a man starts day 1. Sometimes I think I get looks when i’m telling my 3 and a half year old son to quit crying and be a man. But I still kiss his scrape and make it better.
I stand by my earlier comment how to stop a tantrum which isn’t a hyper masculine approach. Also, If I hit my son with a pillow, when hes upset, oh he’d fight me alright but it wouldn’t be playful.
Being a man is being a protector and its putting yourself last. Making sure your wife and kids have everything before you do. Oh? is that not fair? Suck it up and be a man. Life’s not fair. I started that message early.
Society emphatically will not teach a boy how to be a man in 2024. I plan on putting him in wrestling when he turns 4. Like I said in my prior comment and expecting him to do difficult things in life without complaint. Breaking down with emotion is a privilege that men don’t always get to have.
Also probably a boy thing, potty training was a struggle for a bit since he told us shitting his pants was “Fun! BIG Fun!” Yeah… Okay bro…
I hope he learns to be tough but soft from me. I don't think I've had the relationship problems that men commonly have with women since I was raised by a single mom and grew up watching soap operas with her everyday lol.
When he's older I intend to make him look a person in the eye shake their hand and say hes sorry, when he makes mistakes. But then hug him and tell him i'm proud of him.
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Okay I got to the boy mom part. I did hear correctly your having a boy. I think teaching a boy to be a man starts day 1. Sometimes I think I get looks when i’m telling my 3 and a half year old son to quit crying and be a man. But I still kiss his scrape and make it better.
I stand by my earlier comment how to stop a tantrum which isn’t a hyper masculine approach. Also, If I hit my son with a pillow, when hes upset, oh he’d fight me alright but it wouldn’t be playful.
Being a man is being a protector and its putting yourself last. Making sure your wife and kids have everything before you do. Oh? is that not fair? Suck it up and be a man. Life’s not fair. I started that message early.
Society emphatically will not teach a boy how to be a man in 2024. I plan on putting him in wrestling when he turns 4. Like I said in my prior comment and expecting him to do difficult things in life without complaint. Breaking down with emotion is a privilege that men don’t always get to have.
Also probably a boy thing, potty training was a struggle for a bit since he told us shitting his pants was “Fun! BIG Fun!” Yeah… Okay bro…
I hope he learns to be tough but soft from me. I don't think I've had the relationship problems that men commonly have with women since I was raised by a single mom and grew up watching soap operas with her everyday lol.
When he's older I intend to make him look a person in the eye shake their hand and say hes sorry, when he makes mistakes. But then hug him and tell him i'm proud of him.