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LovingMother's avatar

I hear you. I mostly look online. There are sources like NotTheBee and the postmellenial. Also, Matt Walsh reports alot on this stuff. And, jt directed me to Yang's substack:

https://wesleyyang.substack.com/p/i-needed-love-i-needed-support-i

""I needed love. I needed support. I needed somebody to hear me out and not just tell me what I wanted to hear."

Chloe Cole on her life trajectory: puberty blockers at 13; double mastectomy at 15; detransition advocate at 18"

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Ute Heggen's avatar

I have the perspective, not often listened to, of the ex-wife, long ago story from 1992. This, what we have now, is exponential runaway. I regret to be so honest. For mind/body relief, Ute Heggen YT channel (Ex wife of trans heals in nature and movement) I have to isolate myself. I no longer leave my town, my friends, my land. My ex-husband is the self created captive, in his 3M apartment, fully owned in NYC. I have a freedom that he does not. Ute Heggen, YT channel

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LovingMother's avatar

I am very sorry, Ute.

You have lived with this a long time. So, it is likely you could have written this one yourself:

"Psychiatry Professor: ‘Transgenderism’ Is Mass Hysteria Similar To 1980s-Era Junk Science"

https://thefederalist.com/2016/11/17/psychiatry-professor-transgenderism-mass-hysteria-similar-1980s-era-junk-science/

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Ute Heggen's avatar

Please visit my youtube channel, Ute Heggen, for a demonstration of my nature work for healing and my mind/body movement series. I appreciate the sympathy, but I have chosen to speak out, since I see children lured into this cult of false promises and unhealthy pills, injections and surgeries.

Our stories are beginning to be told, as on Lime Soda Films channel, trailer for new docu:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QhAlvw_kAHs

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LovingMother's avatar

Yes, people should listen to what the Trans Widows have to say. Thank you for the movie trailer.

I wonder whether Common Sense might have a movie review of this one when it is released?

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Ute Heggen's avatar

I think it's a good idea. They could review the filmmaker's 4 part series on Lime Soda Films, "Dysphoric" right now. Factual, beautiful, tragic and insightful. Vaishnavi Sundar was immediately uninvited from several international film festivals when this topic was revealed as her film subject.

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LovingMother's avatar

Bari publishes movie reviews on Sundays now although she doesn't necessarily write all of them herself. I think it would be a great ask coming from you since you *are* a Trans Window and understand best what is happening. from that viewpoint which is a really important viewpoint that most people have not heard a word from. Perhaps you might even have a reviewer to suggest to her?

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Ute Heggen's avatar

Thanks! I will wait until the film, Behind the Looking Glass, comes out on LIme Soda Films in January. They do have a tips email, I think tips@honestlypocast.com. Trans widows are usually not covered. There is a review of my memoir, In the Curated Woods, True Tales from a Grass Widow (iuniverse, 2022) at womenarehuman.com in their books/media section, as well as 3 excerpts. It would be great to get some press to get the story out--the other platform is transwidows.voices.com. The cross-sex ideology has made "rules" for journalists at the Trans Journalists Association Style Guide webpage, and basically, our stories are taboo. But thanks.

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